Wedding Anniversary

my wedding invitation card

This coming Friday 10.12.2010 will be our 5th year wedding Anniversary! It's not so long years of togetherness compare to 30yrs or 40yr of marriage. But it does hold a meaning by itself.

12 years ago i met this 'MAN' while i was still studying in University! Many parents do go against love during studying.... I hide it long enough from my parents but never once i neglected my studies! We graduated from University and started working. That was the most trial period on our "Love" started. I would say typical Indian parents who against 'love marriage' phenomena. This was more on his side. On top of it, my parents was worried on my choice. Every parents who have daughters will have this kind of feeling i guess........Somehow we manage to assure them that we made a right choice. It took almost 1 and 1/2 years to convenience them but it's all so worth it. We sail to the harbour of wedding hall!

flower garland and red liquid made from "kumkum" powder

12 years ago when i think about my wedding, I thought marriage is bed of roses! Everything will be sweet and great!

Little does I know that marriage is full of responsibilities, there will be heartaches, depressions and tears! There will be arguments and there will be financial difficulties! It comes with the giving birth experience and the joy on arrival of "little bundle of joy"! The wonderful family life with kids and so on and so forth!

Looking back at these 5 years, I have learn the meaning of love, give and take, patient, understanding and trust! I realized that my life had many ups and downs. Nevertheless I'm all fine because of the 'MAN' that I have picked 12 years ago!